Tuesday, December 20, 2022

How I Learned to Appreciate Elvis Week...in Iowa



I grew up in Olive Branch (family farm and church) and Whitehaven (Harding Academy at Hwy 51 & Holmes then SBEC on Tulane). Every so often on the AM radio a new Elvis song would come out and that was kind of cool. I was doing Algebra I homework (7th grade , a momentary prodigy for math but that soon passed) at home one afternoon when the news came that Elvis had passed away. It was sad of course but not a surprise. Trips to Methodist South and health peril had been broadcast before.

The mourning of fans worldwide was no surprise either.  Some people reading this will still have a copy of the Commercial Appeal or Press Scimitar with giant headlines or perhaps tickets to the concert that wasn't to be. The renaming of Highway 51 as Elvis Presley Blvd was kind of an eye opener - this sort of thing wasn't done much in those days. The plot to steal the body from the cemetery was and is just bizarre. By moving the gravesite to Graceland the seed of an idea for a tourist attraction was born and oh how it has grown. The amazing growth and decades long staying power of Elvis Week with all the panels, activities, and candlelight vigil is something of a headscratcher for locals. At one time Bab Bob's/Vapors hosted an Elvis impersonator contest (naturally a fine young Baptist never actually visited such a place but you heard about that); this has been replaced by tribute artists from around the world who compete in preliminaries and prestigious finals...and has spawned feeder contests on multiple continents (much like the International Blues Challenge). Later, in my 40s, I had the opportunity to emcee a preliminary a preliminary night  at the Hard Rock on Beale and really enjoyed it. Generally, locals appreciate the tourists, the tourist dollars, and the mainly positive press for the city. Graceland , now with the Graceland Guest House and more, is superbly managed. Fans of all ages -- from 80somethings to teens -- continue to come. 

I have never been to the Candlelight Vigil. I wouldn't mind seeing it,  but do I want to somehow intrude on  what is a meaningful and emotional experience for many thousands of visitors. And I have no intention of going to poke fun as some locals have in past; that is simply not respectful.

My compact vacation this summer took me on a drive of over nine hours through the heartland of America which boasts both arch-conservative billboards and clean energy-producing wind turbines by the score. My aim was Davenport, Iowa for a traditional jazz festival which is an exceedingly rare commodity.  Most jazz festivals these days - not there are many - throw together a mix of straight ahead jazz with a dose of smooth jazz and some older pop stars and possibly a hat tip to hot jazz somewhere down the bill. NOTA BENE: there is a bit of a distinction, in my opinion anyway, between Dixieland and Hot Jazz, mainly in terms of performance style and repertoire rather than instrumentation. I chalk this up to regional influences from jazz centers of New Orleans, Kansas City, Chicago, and New York. Okay, I am already putting some of you to sleep, but remember that the name of this blog is But I Digress!



Anyway back to the road trip and the destination: Davenport, Iowa, the Quad Cities on the Mississippi River. From Memphis just drive to Moline , IL and hang a left.  Why Davenport? Simply put the Bix Fest is named for Bix Beiderbecke, cornet phenom and local son who lived from 1903-1931. The flame of talent burnt itself out with an able assist from too much alcohol.  This summer was the 51st annual festival for hot jazz and it was held in the ballroom of a casino resort hotel.  The year-end, hand-addressed solicitation letter for the non-profit festival cited 800 attendees. Not to quibble but I think they meant 800 attendees at various events over four days NOT 800 unique attendees; my event producer eye says something more akin to 200ish unique individual attendees...and that might include festival volunteers. Nonetheless the music was superb beyond measure. The dozen or so bands, all of whom played multiple sets and whose members occasionally co-mingled to form new, smaller groups, did not come for a big paycheck.  Bands were in fact sponsored by donors, mainly individuals, and they stayed in a modest Quality Inn* about five miles from the casino. 

The bands, tribute artists if you will, were as much enjoying themselves as were the audience members. The locals with whom I interacted fell into one of two categories: ardent volunteers handling all sorts of tasks or curious but friendly people who had never attended but knew of the event. 

There was a morning small group performance at the graveside of Bix. As one of the younger festival attendees at age 60, I can assure you that none of us needed to be driving at night along the winding paths into the cemetery for a candlelight anything!

I cannot say for certain that the Bix Fest is the largest annual event in Davenport, but I will say that  it is treated with respect and affection by the locals...just as I try to treat Elvis Week.

Anyway I ponied up the $25 annual membership for the Bix Beiderbecke Jazz Society without hesitation knowing  that I may or may not be up to making that long drive ever again. I loved the grassroots appeal of the letter which also asked recipients to consider donating frequent flyer points to defray travel expenses for the bands. 

How many more years can the Bix Fest go on? How many more years for Elvis Week? No one knows, but whatever your passion or interest, embrace it. I talked about going to Bix Fest for four years before ever going. Two lessons for me: (1) you have support things that you want to see survive and (2) things that are not your cup of tea are probably someone else's great passion and deserve respect. 

I am toying with the idea of a cruise on the Danube next year originating in Budapest, but I am not sure it will be as memorable as Iowa. 

* A word about the "modest" Quality Inn. The owner/manager , an Indian gentleman named Mike, has the biggest heart of any five people you have ever met. He is outside on the motel patio from 11pm-1 am on the Friday night of the festival grilling hamburgers and hot dogs for the festival musicians (festival performers, fans, locals, all welcome) who are rollicking in a jam session with an ebb and flow of musicians that is a sheer delight almost impossible to describe. You pretty much need to drive to Iowa to experience it. See you there. 

Thursday, February 24, 2022

There was no Renaissance in Russia

 There was no Renaissance or Reformation per se in Russia. At the ascension of Peter the Great (1682-1725), the main garments were medieval robes, women of the royal family were kept locked in towers, literacy was barely existent and contact with other countries shunned. Russian forces of that era were mauled by Ottomans and Swedes. There was no northern seaport. Serfdom, flogging, death by impalement or any number of similarly gruesome methods was common. Russia lost the Crimean War in 1856 to England, France, and the Ottomans. Fast forward to 1904 and Russia is trounced by Japan. The revolution in 1917 takes place partly because of the incompetent leadership during WWI. The Soviet Union won WWII by a combination of attrition and scorched earth, brawn over brain. Post war Europe, the Iron Curtain, and Cold War are within memory for many.


Economics and innovation has never been a strong suit. Military expansion to take ever more territory and resources has (as Rome did to maintain bread & circuses, this is a pyramid scheme of an economy).

“We must invade to protect our ethnic kindred there” – Hitler to the Sudetenland in 1938, Putin in Ukraine 2022. The premise is to quietly colonize by building up population. It is a very old tactic really.

Ronald Reagan defeated the Evil Empire by managing an arms race that Russia could not afford.

Unlike China which went to brutal Marxism under Mao to a pseudo capitalism, Russia still did not manage to get an economy going after the breakup of the Soviet Union. If you suddenly got rid of all the Chinese made goods in your home, closet, and garage, it might be quite bare. What Russian made items do you own?

Putin needs Ukraine for the resources to be sure, but moreso for his egomaniacal pride. He is unbalanced and evil. He is also unchecked -- Georgia in 2008, Crimea in 2014, Belarus election interference last year. The real question is where does he stop? Kiev? Bucharest? Vilnius? Warsaw? And also can/will anyone do anything of substance?

Sunday, February 20, 2022

Birthdays with Zeros

 These are all a big deal it seems. The first one is a very big deal of course and the subsequent ones simply mark the realization that we have survived another decade.  I remember celebrating 40 in a big way but 50 not so much. And this week 60 is about waxing nostalgic. 

Who knows how much is left? No one.  I have a long list of things that I have not done - marriage, kids, international travel, focusing anything enough to be really good at it! But I have plenty of things I enjoy doing and have had some notable accomplishments -- some have stood the test of time, some have not. 

I am no cognizant of putting off things which I will find enjoyable and enriching because I have just one more task, project, job to handle. Seems like I have missed a few years of fun events which occur in April or October just because I am too busy to take the time to enjoy. I will work on that. 

It is always nice to just catch up with people too, that requires intentionality and I will make the effort. 

Not yet time to call it a wrap and just reflect though - there is more to enjoy. 

Monday, March 15, 2021


Gore & Gore Art Show 4/9-17/21

Sister and brother, painter and photographer, a familial familiarity but two distinctive styles – this is Gore + Gore, a pop up art show opening Friday, April 9, at the Medicine Factory at 85 Virginia Avenue W.


Kat Gore is a well known painter. A graduate of Memphis College of Art, her work has been a favorite of interior designers, has shown in commercial galleries, and graced a Memphis in May poster. Her style is markedly her own whether a particular piece is whimsical or pensive. Her use of muted color and imagery that may be bold or subtle coupled with the occasional bit of mixed media always leads her fans to wonder what is coming with the next body of work in the same way that children run down a staircase on Christmas morning.


Sanford Gore is a bit more enigmatic, lower profile, exploring and creating quietly, now with a near ancient wet glass technique, now with a modern camera. The images are haunting or exuberant or both.


In their first duo show (in adulthood), the pair will showcase new works in the 1912 patent medicine factory downtown that has quickly become an artist’s colony, housing both studio space and exhibit areas.


The show opens on Friday, from 5:30 to 7:30 pm with an additional open house on Saturday, April 10 , from 10 am until 12:00 pm. The show will remain up through Saturday , April 17, with subsequent viewing by appointment.


 

Tuesday, August 18, 2020

Fundraising = Relationships: Soft Metrics or How do we know we have done a good job?

 

We can find dozens of articles from the Association of Fundraising Professionals and other credible sources, but equally we can go with what we know instinctively.

 

Relationship building is a lifecycle

·         Donor prospecting/cultivation – find them

·         Donor engagement – get them interested and on board

·         Donor increase in giving – encourage greater participation

·         Donor as advocate – when the donor becomes an ambassador to peer exponential growth become possible.

·         Donor bequest – the commitment to a legacy gift is the greatest testament of donor confidence.

 

First rule: Don’t take an engagement ring on the first date. It is off putting.  Relationships develop over time.

Second rule: Relationships are two-fold – the relation between organizational rep and donor and the relation between organization and donor. The organization will outlast the rep (or it is a really shaky org) so make sure that the org and donor have a real relationship.

Third rule: Relationships are transactional. One way is not sustainable over time – donors get bored, feel used, feel unloved, and move on unless they are engaged.

 

Metric: Stay in touch. The longer the interval in actual person-to-person communication (newsletters don’t count), the colder the call when you make it. Calling for no real reason often sparks suspicion and just feels awkward for all involved, therefore use any logical reason to touch base (call, email, message) such as upcoming talks or webinars, events such as  5k run or wine pull (according to possible interests of the donor!), birthdays, and art exhibits or sports team standings.

 

NOTA BENE: Our wide range of donors have different preferences for communication – text, FB Messenger, phone call, email, letter (not form).

 

 

Donors are a moving target

·         Donors come and go – if they get bored with us or more excited by another organization, they move on

·         Donors are multi-faceted – they likely support more than one organization, not just ours AND there is likely a hierarchy in the donors mind of which organization should receive the bigger check.

·         Donors have lives – Things happen – small children in school evolving to empty nesters, career changes, household moves, death of a spouse, divorces, etc  – and if we keep them through good times and bad, there may be ups and downs in giving that may or may not reflect how much they like our org.

 

First rule:  Stay on top of the info -  new addresses, new phone numbers, new emails, new employers, new spouses, new last names – we have to watch for every clue and update as best we can. Jot down the number on the caller ID , observe the email address sending an RSVP.

Second rule:  Connect the dots – obits are the best tool for confirming who is married to whom, parents’ names, children’s names, and more. Glean information everywhere you can and stow it in RE.

Third rule: Track as best you can the community involvement of donors – other orgs they support, their memberships, their passions and interest…these latter make for good talking points.

 

Metric: Continually update records. Time spent on updating information is well spent.

 

 

Know the product

·         Donors have heard our standard speech – ever go to a comedy club for the second set by the same comedian? Or a concert tour where the band does some “spontaneous” banter by rote in the next city?

·         Donors want to know what is new now – fair question, don’t we all?

·         Donors want to know --- lots of things

 

First rule:  Keep up as best you can with changes within your own organization– be they virus related or not – because someone may ask you and it would be nice to have an answer ready.

Second rule: Find ways to engage your co-workers in departments/areas where programmatic work is taking place, i.e. the trenches floor. It’s an eye opener. You’ll learn much more than the talking points in your brochures.

Third rule: Give tours of programmatic areas (in non pandemic times) and GO ON tours with co-workers who may have different perspectives and talking points. Be a secret shopper with a notepad. You would learn something new, but it is also about watching the donor’s interest peak or wane, listening to what they ask.

Fourth rule: Share what you learn with your co-workers in development.

 

Metric: Learn more about your organization at every opportunity and build relationships within the organization as well as outside the organization.

 

Tuesday, May 19, 2020

Your Rights End at My Face

I spent all day working in a clinic to keep as many people as possible safe, only to have a guy walk up to me in Home Depot, no mask, two feet from my face, to tell me I was wasting my time wearing a mask, that the whole virus thing was political shenanigans. Wow. Thanks.
I am hunky dory fine with people having different opinions & views and even embracing looney tunes conspiracy theories, go for it, enjoy , but do not be so disrespectful of me as to literally get in my face, uninvited, out of the blue, Jack.
Here's the thing we've all been grappling with: do you defriend or just unfollow being people being irresponsible on social media?
Oh wait, we are no longer dealing with that - we are dealing with people being jerks in hardware stores two feet from you. Well, one answers the other - I have defriended this doddering malcontent on FB and will steer clear, far clear, should I see him in public again.
Sorry to end the day with an angry post but people need some sort of respect for boundaries.

Wednesday, April 29, 2020

Arts online - 4/29/20 and upcoming


Tonight at 7pm Opera Memphis presents Opera for Animals - online. 

MSO virtual performance of William Tell – a whole orchestra zooming from their homes!



University of Memphis Art Museum
The “7,6,5…” exhibit which would have opened a few weeks back is bring incrementally released in May on various social media platforms –

Crosstown Arts Youth Theater Company
Their play, Princess Pat,  which was to have toured senior centers this summer in now online https://vimeo.com/402339291?mc_cid=8d60ae16b0&mc_eid=62beb7d65d

Luna Nova Music’s 14th Annual Belvedere Chamber Music
The Fest set for June 17-20 will occur online. Some of the composers represented will be Bach, Bartok, Debussy, Poulenc, Boulanger, Prokofiev www.lunanova.org